Can a pre-nup override a will?

As Americans marry later in life and blended families become more common, prenuptial agreements are no longer just for the wealthy or newly famous. They are increasingly part of mainstream estate planning. But that raises a critical question that often surprises families after a death: Does a prenup override a will?

In most cases, the answer is yes, according to Harry Margolis. A prenuptial agreement is a legally binding contract, and contracts generally trump the instructions laid out in a will.

That distinction can have major consequences, particularly for second marriages, families with adult children and estates that rely heavily on trusts or beneficiary designations rather than probate.

Why a Prenup Usually Controls

A will is a statement of intent. A prenup is a contract. That difference matters.

“If you entered into a contract to give your spouse a certain portion of your estate, and you don’t do it, then whoever benefits from that contract has a claim against your estate,” Margolis explained.

In practical terms, that means a surviving spouse can assert rights under a prenup even if the will says something different. The estate may be forced to satisfy the contract before honoring the will’s instructions.

The Probate Problem

Many people assume disputes over estates play out in probate court. That is only partly true.

Assets that pass through a will go through probate, making them public and easier to review or challenge. Probate filings include an inventory of assets, which provides transparency.

But many assets never touch probate. Trusts, jointly owned property and accounts with beneficiary designations transfer automatically and privately. Those transfers can still violate a prenup, but discovering and challenging them is far more difficult.

That lack of visibility often fuels family conflict. Heirs may not realize what happened until it’s too late to act.

Blended Families and Unintended Outcomes

Later-life marriages are especially vulnerable to these problems. It is common for spouses to have children from prior relationships, separate assets and different expectations about inheritance.

Without clear agreements, families may be left guessing what the deceased intended. That uncertainty can be compounded if one spouse managed finances late in life, particularly if illness or cognitive decline was involved.

Written agreements — whether prenuptial or postnuptial — can reduce that ambiguity. Clear language about who is supposed to receive what can protect a surviving spouse and reduce the likelihood of litigation.

When Documents Collide

Problems arise most often when estate planning documents are created at different times or by different professionals.

A prenup may promise a surviving spouse a share of the estate. Years later, a will or trust may leave assets to children instead. Unless those documents are carefully coordinated, the conflict may not surface until after death.

Margolis said the solution is straightforward but often overlooked: review all estate planning documents together.

The will must be consistent with the prenup, unless both spouses later agree to change the contract. Otherwise, the estate risks legal claims that can drain time, money and goodwill.

Communication Matters

Even well-drafted documents may not prevent conflict if families are kept in the dark.

When expectations don’t match reality, emotions tend to run high. Clear communication during life can reduce suspicion and finger-pointing later.

As Margolis put it, it is often better for family members to be unhappy with a parent’s decision than to blame a surviving spouse for outcomes they don’t understand.

Key Takeaways

A prenuptial agreement is a contract and usually overrides a will.

Assets outside probate, such as trusts and beneficiary accounts, can complicate enforcement of a prenup.

Blended families face higher risks of conflict without clear written agreements.

Wills and prenups must be reviewed together to avoid contradictions.

Clear communication with family members can reduce disputes after death.